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June 2008 netPsychologist.com Newsletter
Tools and Tips For Success Living With Silence
  I don't know about you, but
sometimes, I feel pretty dull. I am not inspired and it seems I have nothing to say. In those moments, I refrain from creative endeavors such as writing this newsletter. I'd rather put out nothing than something of questionable value to readers. So I fall silent.

But, I keep running across references to the benefits of silence. One suggested that if I want to move nearer the Incomprehensible (sometimes called "God") I should try sitting in silence. Another reference to silence came from a client as she talked about spending an hour floating in an enclosed immersion container at a spa. In earlier years they were called "stimulus deprivation tanks" and were touted as beneficial not only for relaxation but improved performance if the desired performance was visualized while immersed in soundless darkness, or silence.

Eckhart Tolle ("Power of Now") in an autobiographical statement recently said the major lesson of his life was to resist nothing. For us ambitious, change-the-world, accept-nothing-as-it-is and control- everything Americans, these words may not listen well. When we get in touch with silence and stillness, we get anxious and are impelled to get busy. After all, an "idle mind is the Devil's workshop" and "idle hands do no good." It is very easy to go to extremes. I will agree that too much of anything can be harmful.

In the meantime, I pass on to you the invitation to let silence and stillness come into your life, if it so desires, and not fear it. If nothing else, it will connect you to yourself and give you a chance to be at home with yourself for a while with nothing to do but rest and get ready for the next phase of your living.

Excerpt from a Letter to Her Family
Millicent Rogers (1902 - 1953)   photo by Robert (click on image to see more) mountain
"Did I ever tell you about the feeling I had a little while ago.? Suddenly passing Taos Mountain I felt that I was part of the Earth, so that I felt the Sun on my Surface and the rain. I felt the Stars and the growth of the Moon,under me, rivers ran. And against me were the tides. The waters of rain sank into me. And I thought if I stretched out my hands they would be Earth and green would grow from me.

And I knew there was no reason to be lonely that I was one with everything, and Death was as easy as the rising sun and as calm and natural - that to be enfolded in Earth was not an end but part of oneself, part of every day and night that we lived, so that Being part of the Earth one was never alone.

And all fear went out of me - with great, good stillness and strength."

 
Silence
   
"When words become unclear, I shall focus with photographs. When images become inadequate, I shall be content with silence." - Ansel Adams
 
 
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